Working through grief in 3 steps

We all remember the moments in our lives that have had the biggest impact. We can remember the time, the feel, the smell and the aura that enveloped us with its presence. One year ago today our cat, Herbert, that we only had for just over a year lost a painful battle with urinary crystals….

His Storey: The Beginning

Growing up on the farm with only one channel every Sunday was spent watching Disney cartoons, Then the Disney Movie and if you were lucky Dallas. Mom would always pop popcorn and dad would make iced tea and no matter what we were doing with our day we knew that as soon as 5:30 hit…

5 Characteristics of a Pinup Doll

I have been following this Pin-up lifestyle for almost 4 years now. Being involved in such a small knit community has been an exhilirating experience for me. It was like the first thirst quenching sip of Iced Tea on a hot summer’s day but comforting like Nana’s chicken soup and a homemade grilled cheese. Alot…

Keys to Spiritual Wellness

Part of my ongoing quest to always be better led me to a place where I am thirsty for knowledge. Not knowing where to start I started with 3 specific genres that I would like to gain more awareness in. It’s amazing when you start awakening your senses a distinct path begins to unviel itself….

My name is…

My name is Sweet Ruby Bluez. I started this journey almost 2 years ago. Restarting the journey to my life that I wish I had started long ago. Nobody can ever really be sure when they are heading the right way. I know what it feels like when you are going the wrong way down…

Life Itself

As my boys slept I happened apon this movie on Netflix, “Life Itself”. I have never heard of it and such is life when you rely on Netflix I thought I had seen or knew of what was on their playlist. The movie is a narrative that tells the storey from each individuals perspective and…

The Breakup

In today’s modernized world it seems that the Breakup is the greatest contingency plan that we all carry in our back pockets. Afraid to committ, afraid of not getting our way, afraid of losing who we are…are the one of millions exscuses we get when our significant other moves on. In some cases we are…

40 year old virgin?

Alright! So it seems like I have an even bigger mountain to climb than I had expected. Silly me for thinking that after two years of intimacy that it could be so easily changed. I kind of went with the age old clause that he was a man and most men need some level of…

Blessed

When everything is truly all said and done I do know that I am really blessed. It is still hard to accept this wonderful life that I had spent forever wishing for. You do truly become your own worst enemy at times and its only for those times leading up that you established a connection…

Look At Me

When the time to finally take a look inside of ourselves is finally here will we look at what relects back onto us and like what we see? Do we cringe at what we have done or will be doing and the thought of those actions we lose site of those consequences. In a world…